Free Discovery Call
Free Discovery Call
20 minutes · Free · Online
Not sure where to start?
We’ll talk about what you want help with, where you’re feeling stuck, and whether coaching is a good fit.
No pressure. No obligation.
Pricing
Coaching designed for where you are now.
All coaching sessions are held online, so you can join from anywhere.
The only in-person service is Event Companion, where I accompany approved clients to kink events in the San Francisco Bay Area.
Whether you’re just starting to explore kink, preparing for your first event, or looking for practical guidance without judgment, every session is tailored to your experience and goals.
No question is too basic. No curiosity is too weird.
Paid scheduling links are being connected.
The free discovery call opens Calendly. Paid services still open the inquiry form until the approved Calendly payment flow is ready.
Individual Coaching
Focused support without guesswork.
One Coaching Session
60 minutes · $175 · Online
A focused session for one specific question, challenge, or next step.
- Understanding your interests
- Negotiating a scene
- Vetting a partner
- Building confidence
- Event etiquette
- Consent conversations
- Relationship dynamics
- Finding your place in the community
Deep Dive Session
90 minutes · $250 · Online
More time to unpack your goals, answer questions, and leave with a practical plan.
This is a good fit if you are completely new, feeling overwhelmed, or navigating several connected questions at once.
Most Popular
Most Popular
Kink Curious to Kink Confident
Three online sessions · $475
A complete beginner coaching package designed to take you from “I don’t know where to start” to feeling prepared to explore safely and confidently.
Session One: Understand what you want
- Your interests
- Your boundaries
- Your concerns
- Consent foundations
- Safety basics
Session Two: Learn how to navigate it
- Finding community
- Vetting partners
- Negotiation
- Communication
- Red flags
- Community etiquette
Session Three: Put it into practice
- Preparing for your first event or experience
- Managing nerves
- Asking for what you want
- Reviewing what you have learned
- Creating a personal roadmap
You’ll leave with practical knowledge, resources, and a clearer sense of what comes next.
Save $50 compared with three individual sessions.
The price covers three separate online sessions. The public booking flow is for the package purchase and first session only; follow-up booking links stay private.
Event Support
Walk in prepared.
First Event Preparation
90 minutes · $225 · Online
Heading to your first munch, play party, workshop, or kink event?
You’ll walk in knowing what to expect instead of wondering whether you’re doing everything wrong.
- What to wear
- What to bring
- How to introduce yourself
- Consent and etiquette
- How to approach people
- Managing nerves
- What actually happens at events
- How to leave or say no without awkwardness
Event Companion
Online preparation + up to three hours in person + online follow-up · $795
Sometimes the hardest part is simply walking through the door.
We’ll meet online beforehand to prepare. I’ll then accompany you to an approved event in the San Francisco Bay Area, help you understand the space, answer questions, and support you as you navigate the experience.
Afterward, we’ll meet online again to process what happened and discuss what you want to do next.
Event Companion is available only after a consultation and is subject to event, location, timing, safety, and fit.
Frequently Asked Questions
Clear expectations before booking.
Are all coaching sessions online?
Yes. All discovery calls, individual sessions, packages, event preparation sessions, and follow-up sessions take place online. Event Companion is the only in-person service.
Where is Event Companion available?
Event Companion is available for approved events in the San Francisco Bay Area. Availability depends on the event, location, date, timing, safety, and whether the service is a good fit.
Is this therapy?
No. Coaching focuses on education, communication, confidence, skill-building, and practical guidance. It is not psychotherapy, medical care, legal advice, or crisis support.
Do I need any experience?
No. Most clients are new to kink or exploring it more intentionally for the first time.
Is everything confidential?
I treat what you share with care and discretion. Coaching is not psychotherapy, and it does not create therapist-client privilege or medical confidentiality.
Can I book Event Companion immediately?
No. Event Companion begins with a consultation so we can review the event, logistics, expectations, boundaries, and whether the service is a good fit.
What happens after I book?
You’ll receive a confirmation email, calendar invitation, and video-call link. Any intake questions will be included during booking.
Still not sure where to start?
Book a free discovery call and we’ll figure out the most useful next step.