Coaching
Private coaching for the questions you are not ready to ask publicly.
Get practical, nonjudgmental support for exploring kink or consensual nonmonogamy with more preparation and less guesswork.
Coaching options
Beginner BDSM Coaching
Understand your interests, learn common terminology, prepare for real-world experiences, and build confidence without pretending to be experienced.
Polyamory Coaching for Beginners
Think through motives, structures, agreements, autonomy, jealousy, dating, time, and the practical realities of opening a relationship.
Kink Coach in San Francisco
Work with Jules Holloway virtually or through selected in-person services in San Francisco and the greater Bay Area.
First Event Support
Prepare for an event privately or ask about nonsexual event accompaniment.
What a coaching session looks like
Sessions are conversational but structured. We identify the immediate situation, clarify the decision in front of you, and turn broad uncertainty into specific questions and next steps.
You will not be pressured to disclose unnecessary details, adopt a label, attend an event, open a relationship, or act on any fantasy.
Ways to begin
Introductory Consultation
A short conversation to discuss what you need, answer basic questions about coaching, and determine whether the service is appropriate.
Free
Private Coaching Session
A focused 60-minute session built around a specific question, decision, or upcoming experience.
$175
Beginner Coaching Package
Three private sessions for people preparing to take their first significant real-world steps into kink or polyamory.
$475