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Kink in 10.

Kink isn't as complicated as people make it seem. Kink in 10 cuts through the myths with quick, honest conversations about BDSM, consent, power exchange, toys, etiquette, relationships, and the culture surrounding it. All in 10 minutes or less. No gatekeeping. No shame.

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Episode 5 · Aug 10, 2026 · 9:26

How do I negotiate at a play party?

How do you negotiate a scene with someone new at a play party? Jules breaks down what to ask about desires, limits, medical considerations, aftercare, drop, references, and check-ins, plus how to turn vague interests like “sensation” into an actual scene. Free negotiation guide: departmentofconsent.com/negotiate

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Ten minutes. One useful question.